After all, what is the purpose of dating and relationships?
The Bible says that relationships can help us show the love of God to other people.
Those who ask this question are usually looking for guidelines regarding physical boundaries in dating.
However, intimacy is a much broader issue than physicality.
If we’re thinking ‘how far can I go before crossing the line? Sexual sin does not just exist within our bodies, but also in our minds.
Scripture doesn’t just tell us not to ‘approach’ the line, but to turn and flee from it.
You may be thinking, ‘Hang on, I’ve just found someone I really click with, and you’re telling me to put on the brakes?!
’ Not exactly – we’re not saying that you should go and put in place a ‘NO TOUCHING: EVER’ rule, but it is important to remember the ways in which we can honour God in the way we do relationships – and in turn, honour ourselves and our partner.
Well, now is the perfect time to lay down some ground rules.Practically speaking, dating relationships should be invited and wanted, not pressured or coerced. We can taper how much we express; it's best to not always say everything we feel.Dependence or co-dependence cede that which God has granted to every person in his image by divine right (Matt. It is wrong for a person to have a kind of control in a romantic context that God does not call any person to give to another (see 2 Sam. We never owe anyone a specific emotion or a particular amount of it. You are each your own person walking with God and neighbor, and you undercut your ability to give love in a safe and stable way as soon as you become anything less.I was dressed as Audrey Hepburn and he was dressed as the Energizer bunny (when I say dressed, I mean he had two batteries taped to his back).He tried to hold my hand that night, I got freaked out because no one had ever made a move on me before and then we went our separate ways.It isn't that popular Christian conceptions of dating boundaries are too big, but that their scope is too small. It will draw boundaries that reflect the full personhood of each individual by showing concern for every aspect of each individual—personal, emotional, moral, and sexual, to name only a few of those many interrelated aspects. Personal agency maintained by good boundaries furnishes romantic intimacy with meaning and substance.