I can see her, with her Earl Grey tea, shaking her head. And today, we are living in a time when anything goes when it comes to dating.
In fact, if you’ve been tuning into , you’ll know what I’m talking about.
Things can escalate quickly so don’t blur the lines. I hope you can see where this could be an issue because if this is protocol for all the people you’re dating, well, that’s a problem.
Let’s say you have 3 different people that you’re dating at once. You kiss and hug each of them, and I’m not referring to the church hugs.
This is the unwritten rule of dating in the modern age.
In light of all this, I asked psychologist Irene Levine, clinical professor of psychiatry at New York University Langone School of Medicine, to demystify the allure of dating multiple people simultaneously, once and for all.
There’s no definitive guide on what to do and what not to do for us believers because the word “dating” isn’t even in the bible. What we call dating nowadays crosses too many lines.
I had people argue me down about how they felt it was OK to date multiple people.
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I advised her not to put all of her dating eggs in one basket, if you will.
I know how borderline insane that sounds, but I did that too when I was single: About six months after a long relationship ended, I dated two men, a professor and a crazy person, basically on two opposing sides of the spectrum, for about a month simultaneously. I knew I wasn’t serious about both, didn’t get hung up on either, and walked away bruise-free.
Most women say, “I can’t even get one good guy to date.” In Find Your Soulmate, I tell you how to get many good guys to date.
Jasbina Ahluwalia I think it encourages him and lets him know that it’s not all in the bag.